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How I handled a customer who demanded a full refund

Started by mossy_rock • November 13, 2026 • 9 replies
mossy_rock

So this lady bought a custom engraved cutting board from my shop, and two weeks later she messages me saying it's 'defective' because the engraving is too light. I offered to redo it for free, but she wants a full refund and keeps the board. I told her I can't do that. She then filed a chargeback. I sent the screenshots to Stripe, but honestly I'm second-guessing myself. Should I have just eaten the loss?

tuesdaygloom

Nope. You offered a fix. She wants free product. Chargeback is a bluff half the time. Stick to your guns.

PixelatedOwl

Did she send photos? 'Too light' is subjective. If the rngraving really is shallow, maybe just refund and move on. Not worth the stress.

mossy_rock

She sent one blurry photo. The engraving is actually fine, I have the original file and my machine settings. I think she just changed her mind.

grumpypenguin

Chargebacks are the worst. Make sure you submit the proof that you offered a replacement. That usually wins.

PixelatedOwl

Blurry photo = red falg. You're probably right. Still, some people just want to watch the world burn.

SundaeScoops

I run a bakery and had a similar thing with a custom cake. Customer said the frosting was 'the wrong shade of blue.' Wanted a refund AND kept the cake. I said no, they disputed, I won because I had photos before pickup. Documentation is everything.

tuesdaygloom

Offering a redo is already more than most. She's just trying it on.

grumpypenguin

Also, if she keeps the board after a chargeback, that's technically fraud. Not that anyone will prosecute, but still.

mossy_rock

Thanks all. I'll update when Stripe decides. Fingers crossed.

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